Monday, July 30, 2007

A Vignette

[If you are happy and you know it
Clap your hands] – 2
If you are happy and you know it
Then you really ought to show it
If you are happy and you know it
Clap your hands…


And the loudest clap and stamp and pat and hurray came from little Aryan, as he skipped and jumped and hopped all around the class. The little bag of wildest mischief was all of 5 years and yet gave tough time to the 2 pretty teachers of his Upper KG. The teachers dreaded this little child, for they knew not what new prank was born in his naughty little head the next minute. Come lunch break and he would be there teasing, pushing and bumping into every child, ever trying to run out of the classroom at the wink of an eye. Miss Sharada had already complained twice about this to his parents in a note in his diary, but got no response.

If you are happy and you know it
Then you really ought to show it
If you are happy and you know it
Say Hurray…


The bell for the lunch break rang and kids jumped up from their places and made a run towards the door. A chaos that was so bewildering that the teachers had to march right in the middle of the herd and take some disciplinary actions in the effort to organize them into lines and walk them to the toilets… Having washed his hands, Aryan casually sneaked in behind Sumit and quietly wiped his hands on his shirt. He then hopped his way towards the classroom, tripping Riya on the way, pulling Gina’s long plaited hair, a nudge of an elbow to Irfan and a bump into Sohail before he landed on his seat with a thud.

"Children! All of you put your heads down, close your eyes… all of you… cmon" came the shrill voice of Miss Sharada, as she put the kids to their afternoon nap after the lunch. Every two minutes, Aryan would pop up his head and look at his classmates, all amused at how peacefully they slept in weird postures. Then he would take out his pencil slowly and poke the kid next to him. The teacher would call out his name…. "Aryan, put your head down". Sometimes he would be punished by the teacher. "Stand up on your bench Aryan!" This was a punishment he looked forward to, because it would give him a better view of the class and outside the window. He would then watch the seniors play in the ground for the entire hour. An hour passed and the evening bell rang.

The kids all got up with double the energies, rushed towards the exit doors, down the lobbies, breaking the queues, pushing each other to get to their Mothers at the earliest. The mothers would scoop up their kids in their arms; give them a little peck on their cheeks, and the happy kids would elaborate in excited tones on the events of the day. Sometimes they got a dairymilk, sometimes a packet of gems from their moms, a reward for being away several hours. Aryan was the last to exit the class, walked slowly to the corridor where his maid waited for him. She picked him up, took his bag and water bottle and walked silently towards the red Ford Fiesta parked outside the gate. As he clung on to her, he noticed the other children being kissed and pampered by their mothers, narrating the whole day’s events to their mothers in a hyper excited tone. Aryan clung on to his maid a little closer. His little fair hands thrown around her dark neck, with his head buried at the nape. He could smell the sweat that drenched her, he could feel her damp skin and clothes and a sour stink that emanated from her dry, parched skin. But this sour stink, the clasp of those strong, bony arms, was far more warm and comforting than the empty air that surrounded him… the void that made him cry out secretly at times. The same stillness that woke him from a deep slumber at the dead of the nights… when his little room with all his favourite cartoon characters on the walls frightened him… he would cling on to his snoopy, like he clung on to his maid. The eventful part of the day was already over and what remained were the drab, lonely hours dedicated to an endless wait for his parents to return from office before he fell asleep.

29 comments:

humbl devil said...

there's this couple who live in my building...who have a kid of about 4 or 5...every evening the mother brings the kid down to play...but it's not she who would be playing...they have a maid or aaya to do that...and the mom would be chatting away on her cell...
pity watching the child kicking the ball up at his mother only to get no response...the parents dont know what they are missing...

p.s.
were you the other teacher of the class??

Winged Fantasy said...

@humbl devil: Yeah humbl... they really dont know what they are missing. They are missing the most precious thing in life... their own child. It amazes me how people could be so callous about their own kids. :-)

hahahahaha NO! I had just been there to pick up my niece. My Bhabhi couldnt make it that one particular day. :-)

Amandeep Singh said...

He made out all the share of happiness..fun and joy in his school time...

Whats the money and status for when cant love n clinge on to yer own child...

Aruni RC said...

Your tale is very true: the driven moms and dads of today, and their kid's predicament. The higher up the social or career ladder people seem to climb, they seem to drift away all the more.

I wonder what sort of childhood the coming generation would be having, compared with the ones we were fortunate enough to enjoy, if not pampered then bloody well not ignored by parents (btw,i was pampered, no wonder people call me 'spoilt'. hah!).

'Gone with the wind' indeed? Aren't we Indians supposed to be lengendary at irregularity?

Nisha said...

its happening all around us. i know a lot of kids who dont give a damn to their parents. just becoz they've not felt the initial love that they should have. corporate life sucks!
a post after a long time..nice work

Prince K. said...

Hmm... this is a wonderful little story. I didn't expect the ending...
or whatever the last paragraph is to be called (:P).

Can't say much about this story, though... h'm.
I haven't felt this or seen this.

Winged Fantasy said...

@standbymind: yeah aman. Monay and status mean nothing. absolutely nothing in front of ur child. :-)

@Aruni: Yeah I wonder too. The kind of childhood we had was so diff. There was so much of innocense. And yeah I was pampered too... completely... though I am not a spoilt brat. ;-)

@Nisha Punjabi: Rightly said Nisha. Egjactly. :-)

@Kazarelth: Thanks Kazarelth. :-)
But yeah things like these are common nowadays. I would call it neglected childhood. :-)

Chronus Ess said...

It definitely is a tough choice. You have to choose between a better school and maid combo, or a second grade school plus your affection.

I may disappoint many here, but i would say i kinda understand the parents' helplessness. I am sure they're not partying away when they should be picking up kids from school, taking 'em to play out and stuff. they are working their guts off so that their children may lead a happier life than they did.
And how ever you may deny, the fact still stays that you have to be monetarily sound to be able to take good care of your family.

Though i agree there should not be a complete loss of contact with kids a such a tender age... but i'm sure Aryan will know when he gets into his teen that his years are definitely happier than others of the lot.

Amen!


Anyways,.... Beautifully written, i must say.

Happy Living,
Sumit

Anonymous said...

My mom has been working from the days I was in 3 rd standard.And ya the helper used to come to drop n pick me up ...
And even in the days of engineering college ..we were a family where 4 of us were staying in four different cities ...
But all that din matter that much though .. i guess it depends on the way the parents handle it...

Not everybodys parents can balance between their professional and personal lives i guess!!

Winged Fantasy said...

@the acid tongue: hey AT. While I am tempted to say "monetary security at what cost?" I somewhere still know, what you have said is true. You present the other side of the coin, that we have here happily dismissed in our biased look at the issue.
However, what you have said in your last stanza is the truth and I cudnt agree with you more on it. Deriving the balance is the key.

Thanks for your appreciation and honest opinion that puts forth another perspective. :-)

@blueink: :-) Nice to know you better. :-) And yeah I am glad you grew up with the right balance. So did I. We are the fortunate ones. :-)

Caladrius said...

This kid's quite sensitive, Aryan. Considering he'd secretly weep, and suddenly wake up sometimes from deep sleep, over the lack of time his parents spent with him. When I was Five, I'd care nothing more than jhooling some jhoola, or playing some senseless game. The schoolbus, anyways dropped me on my maingate, so that wasn't an issue. He doesn't have any siblings ??

Caladrius said...

Oooh Ford fiesta ! Sexy Car !

Caladrius said...

Though I do think it won't compensate the parent's time spent with the kid. Only as much time is needed as for him to feel that they love me. Only that much. People pretend, some more than others, that they don't have the time, but frankly itna time to sabke paas hota hai, even the busiest CEO's, the kid's don;t need your full evening with them, they just want to feel loved thats it. you can do that in 30 mins. Picking them up from school or not is inconsequential as long as the parents are able to sustain that feeling in their kid. Anyway, the child should be more easygoing , considering his age.

Impressionist said...

well, like i said
my parents never came to my school to pick me up!
but they have showed me enough love!

peace & love
Jeevy

Winged Fantasy said...

@Sushant: wow! you have a lot to say here. :-) hehehehhe ;-)

But yeah kids are usually quite sensitive. We as adults may think that you know kids might not know or understand this and that. But they do... they are very perceptive. And having done child psychology in my grad... I know they are. :-) And what you said about spending quality time with the kids is true and must be so...
We were lucky to have both quality and quantity. :-)

And yes Ford Fiesta is quite a cool car. :-)

@Rajeev: I am glad to know Jeevy. Touchwood! :-)

AakASH!!! said...

Maare daala, allaaah, maar daala!

Kya khoob likha hai!

Winged Fantasy said...

@aakash!!!: hahahahha....
Sachhi u liked it? :-) :-) :-)Thanks! :-)

Ravali said...

makes us realize that we should never take our love for granted. we are so fortunate to be blessed with loving parents.

Sujoy Bhattacharjee said...

That perhaps is the price the little boy had to pay for going home in a red Ford Fiesta for which the rest of the happy boys might even envy him.

Astraeus said...

this song i used to sing in school when i was in nursery

nostalgic it is..
beautiful post by the way

Aruni RC said...

Truly appreciating this story of yours, i see now that we became somewhat myopic. For sure, Aryan's childhood isn't perfect. But then whose is? Maybe the fact that he goes home in the comfort of a Ford Fiesta (yeah, i can see everyone's obssessed abt the ruddy car!) is 'cuz his parents are slogging it out somewhere.

And a right proper mischief the little fella is too!

(btw - it is no vacation i'm enjoying. Today was Physics practicals... i've got to survive till the 22nd. somehow...grr...)

GuNs said...

Howdy again. Had lost the link to your blog a long time ago. Happened to come across it again any you are now duly blogmarked on my browser again.

How are you?

-PeAcE
--WiTh
---GuNs

The Devil's Paradise....... said...

i wonder.. sometimes how unresponsive some parents are towards their kids's needs..

and fantastic way to express....
cheerss!!
great going.....
keep it up!!

Astraeus said...

why is the pen not flowing???

Unknown said...

Write write write !!! And right something cheerful :)

Lalith said...

mmmm .. a scenario which is very common these days .. and you've put it down really well.

I guess its not that the parents dont realize what they are missing but its more that the prioroties have changed in that way.

I agree we were fortunate to be born in a time when our parents could dedicate most of their time to us :)

Cheers,
Lalith

Pallav said...

clap clap :D what is the sound made by the clap of one hand? ;)

N

Winged Fantasy said...

@nothingman: Why the other is right here... to make a sound loud and ringing. :-)

Arti Honrao said...

This is so touching and unfortunately this is what happens around us!
The naughtiest kid in the school is often the loneliest one outside ...
[most of the times]




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Arti